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I don't think my girls are jealous, but we are all really young (under 21) so they are doing the school thing, bar thing, that kinda stuff. I was never really into it, so I think we have actually became closer, plus I think they realize the only reason I'm doing it is because we started dating in grade 10, so it's about time . My MOH is 20 too, and she is loving getting to go and look at wedding stuff, then she can come to me and get the heads up, since she knows how crazy I am getting.
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I don't think my girls are jealous, but we are all really young (under 21) so they are doing the school thing, bar thing, that kinda stuff. I was never really into it, so I think we have actually became closer, plus I think they realize the only reason I'm doing it is because we started dating in grade 10, so it's about time  . My MOH is 20 too, and she is loving getting to go and look at wedding stuff, then she can come to me and get the heads up, since she knows how crazy I am getting. The only reason you are doing it is because you've been together since grade 10??? I hope there is more to it than that.... that's really only 4 years that you've been together.....
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My FH and I are both the first to get married out of ALL of our friends... so there is a bit of jealousy.... but i think it is only normal. On the other hand I somtimes think that we will start to not fit in with our friends since we will likely be the first couple to have kids as well own our own home ect ect..... we'll see i guess! ~ Alli xoxo
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| my g/fs weren't jealous but they certainly had ... concerns. I am the first to be getting married but the LAST to have thought I would even consider such a thing. Everyone else knew FH and I were falling fast for each other and it was no surprise that we're at the stage that we are now BUT, our personalities and those who know us would never figure us to be where we are now. It was a quite the rollercoaster ride for FH and I because we knew we didn't have everyone's understanding but I'm sure we had everyone's support. However, it seems like our love is contagious b/c the string of flaky relatiobships and one-hit-wonder dates that my girlfriends were accustomed to have come to an abrupt end and in the past 9 months 3 of my close g/f have pretty much found their soul mates and NOW they understand all those crazy feelings I still have. At least they have someone to share it with and I'm glad I was able to break the mold for them. But no, everyone is happy for me BECAUSE they thought I'd never get here and they don't mind that I was here first.
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I'd like to add that I was never interested in wedding stuff prior to being engaged, never dreamed about a wedding and the sort and got a little worried when I had to plan my own. Not because I was bitter about relationships or being single and what not - because it wasn't my thing. Never entertained the idea of getting married for my pesonal reasons (that have obviously changed) but there was no malice to it. I was a BM for my sister and sil's wedding and I hadn't a clue what was going on. I was assigned tasks, did them, got excited on the actual wedding day but never really had any input. So perhaps it may be the same for your friends as well and if that's the case then it's not a reflection of how they really feel.
Met an amazing man - the one from my dreams Jan 2004. He proposed March 2005. Married my true love July 21st 2006. Had our bright-eyed boy wonder March 10th 2007. Bought our brand new first home June 2007 Pregnant with Baby # 2 May 2008
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