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So FH and I decided to each write our own guest list, exchange and compare. To start his list heavily outweighs mine, which is ok. However he has a couple people on his list I strongly disagree with. One is a family friend, who has flat out said he hates me, and is consistently rude to me at every social occasion where we see eachother. The other I think either hates me or has a huge crush on my FH. She usually ingnores me while focusing all her energy on him, and I may be crazy but I swear I catch ome dirty looks. There are a few family members id like to ban but I wouldnt do that. Am I crazy for not wanting people who hate me at my wedding, which Im (partially) paying for? If not how do I get this across to my FH, I tried once and he got pretty mad. Should I just let it go?
- Bought our house June 17th 2007
- Engaged July 5th 2008
- Cant wait to get married August 1st 2009
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If you can let it go, I strongly suggest that you do.
I was directly asked not to invite two of my guests, and told to pay for them separately when I stubbornly went ahead and invited them anyway. It is something I deeply resent to this day.
If your guest-list is larger than 100 people, I highly doubt you will have to see the people you dislike all day! I had only 43 people at my wedding, and after the receiving line I pretty much only talked to my closest friends 
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Zim (8/28/2008)
If you can let it go, I strongly suggest that you do. I was directly asked not to invite two of my guests, and told to pay for them separately when I stubbornly went ahead and invited them anyway. It is something I deeply resent to this day. If your guest-list is larger than 100 people, I highly doubt you will have to see the people you dislike all day! I had only 43 people at my wedding, and after the receiving line I pretty much only talked to my closest friends I agree with this. Odds are, if she hates you, she may rsvp no anyway. Although, I have to say, you're not crazy for not wanting to invite her. I wouldn't want to either.
~Sarah and Rob~ Getting married in Ottawa... sometime in 2010... When you meet someone who can cook and do housework, don't hesitate a minute - marry him!
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if she has a crush on your FH, if it were me I would defn invite her, it would make her miserable to have to attend his wedding!! 
Happily married July 29, 2007
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faith87 (8/29/2008)
if she has a crush on your FH, if it were me I would defn invite her, it would make her miserable to have to attend his wedding!! HAHAHAHA EXACTLY what i would have said......never let a b!itchy girl bother you...it means she jealous of something....and if its your man...GOOD...hahahaa...invite her....be extra nice to her....flaunt that he's ALL yours...... You win!
Chulie ~Countdown to November 1,st 2008~
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