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What is bothering me the most is his attitude towards you. I agree he is trying to show that he has control...over the situation, and you. He was trying to prove a point by a-saying he wasnt leaving but you could, b-packing a bag and going to HER house, and c- coming home and acting as he did. You deserve respect, and he is giving you none. When he leaves for work tomorrow, I would go ahead and change the locks as you were planning. Throw his *** on the lawn so its out of your way.
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crysandjim (9/5/2008)
What is bothering me the most is his attitude towards you. I agree he is trying to show that he has control...over the situation, and you. He was trying to prove a point by a-saying he wasnt leaving but you could, b-packing a bag and going to HER house, and c- coming home and acting as he did. You deserve respect, and he is giving you none. When he leaves for work tomorrow, I would go ahead and change the locks as you were planning. Throw his *** on the lawn so its out of your way.
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I have been following your situation too but haven't posted 'cause I am almost speechless and not the best with words in difficult situations.
Your husband is acting completely ridiculous and I hate that he's trying to make YOU feel like you're in the wrong. I too had an ex who did the same thing to me, and sometimes it's hard to realize that it's NOT YOU! You have been so strong so far, and I hope that you can keep it up. I know how hard it must be, and you are kicking A$$.
Know that all the CB girls are behind you, and if you need a bridal mafia to head out to Sask to do some ball crunching, count me in!
Keep your head up, I am sending infinite hugs your way.
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| The non violent optimistic part of me thinks that the fact that he came home is a good thing. Hopefully after a good night sleep he come to senses and beg you for your forgiveness. Let him sleep, a fight of this magnitude isn't going to get resolved in one night anyway. The other not so nice part of me thinks that you should shave his eyebrows off while he's sleeping, burn all his clothes and put a few drops of chilli oil in his lube ( it will leave him with a lovely burning rash when he tries to pleasure himself). Hugs
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I can't think of much to say other than what's already been said - you're clearly awesome and that douche clearly doesn't deserve you if he's not willing to trust and respect your feelings.
He clearly feels he has the upper hand, and I agree 100% that changing the locks is a good idea - you've been pushed enough, keep pushing back!
Also, can I punch him in the throat? Please??
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wendylady (9/5/2008)
you have alot more restraint than me... there would be NO sleep for him tonight if it was me.... the ***ing nerve!!!!Ditto.
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crysandjim (9/5/2008)
What is bothering me the most is his attitude towards you. I agree he is trying to show that he has control...over the situation, and you. He was trying to prove a point by a-saying he wasnt leaving but you could, b-packing a bag and going to HER house, and c- coming home and acting as he did. You deserve respect, and he is giving you none. When he leaves for work tomorrow, I would go ahead and change the locks as you were planning. Throw his *** on the lawn so its out of your way.I couldn't agree more. He's completely trying to show power and control over the situation and you. I'd call into work and tell them you won't be in. Then I'd call a locksmith and tell them you MUST have the locks changed today.....give them a deadline LONG before you know D!ck (no way I'm calling him DH) will be home to ensure it gets done.
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