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I've thought about this a couple times.. I was the one who never thought they would get married.. EVER.. and now that I'm engaged.. it's a great feeling.. but.. I sit back and wonder.. mind you, now I want to get married and get all this planning over with!! I want to see the end result damn it!
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| Don't worry, I'm sure we all get these feelings at some point or another. FH and I took a pre-marital course by a couple that was married for 14 years and they said even within the first couple months of marriage some people may ask themselves, "OMG did I marry the right person, did I do the right thing?" They even told us that those feeling are completely NORMAL. Just take a deep breath and think about how much your FH loves and cares for you.
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dansfiance (4/8/2006)
I've thought about this a couple times.. I was the one who never thought they would get married.. EVER.. and now that I'm engaged.. it's a great feeling.. but.. I sit back and wonder.. mind you, now I want to get married and get all this planning over with!! I want to see the end result damn it!LMAO @ now I want to get married and get all this planning over with!! I want to see the end result damn it! you know what it looks like in your mind .. in your vision .. the rest of us wanna see the end result too damn it lol .... heheheh
MrsMtobe ~Live and let live ~ Mod Squad Moderator The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
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i take everyones advice with great appreciation... it is not doubts that I am having, I think of it more of a WOW!!! We are having a LONG engagement just for that reason, we want to make sure. I am a child from a divorced family and I know I do not want to be in that situation if we have children. I want to make it work if there were problems down the road. FH knows about these thoughts and has told me not to worry, he is not going to leave me or anything... i think my whole problem is fear of abandonment since my mother left when I was only 5 years old.
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