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RE: Does fh/dh still talk to any of his exes?

MrsSixer — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 13:23:05 GMT

I keep in touch with a couple ex's... but mainly to talk about their kids and stuff. Facebook is great for sharing the photos!

Any ex's that may have had feelings are not among those who I talk to.

My DH talks to his long-term-ex-GF's parents sometimes, but they are pretty cool people. And she is living somewhere away. No worries here!

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TheHbride — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 12:13:06 GMT

MY DH doesnt but his Mom does :angry:

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stonesbaby — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:38:12 GMT

One of FH's exes happens to be FH's bestfriend's (who is like a little brother, their family took FH in when he had no where to go) sister...so we see her when we get together for big family things. At first it really bothered me, and I felt so uncomfortable around her, but they hardly ever really speak to eachother, other than the usual civilities. Plus it was 8 years ago that they dated. Even though they dated for 3 years, it was never that serious, if that makes any sense.

Me? I speak to one of my exes, but only because we have a child together. Otherwise it would be 'adios amigo' to that piece of work! And I have 2 ex bfs on fb...one I went to see Aladdin with in grade 5 (his mom drove us, and he paid...awww!), so he doesn't really count. The other I dated in highschool, for a few months...so also doesn't count. I have to say, though, it's nice to see what they've become...it just enforces it even more that I've got the best man out there, for me!

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williewonka — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 19:07:33 GMT

No, his last gf before me moved to BC. They use to keep in touch but not anymore.

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wickedgrl — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 16:56:18 GMT

My fiance talks to his ex because they have a child..=) I speak to one of my exes who i dated for five and a half years. Not in love with him or anything but its a piece of my past ..we always new we werent the "one"...but provided a good stop for the years it took us both to figure out what we wanted out of life...=)

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Zim — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 01:38:23 GMT

My husband still has his ex-girlfriend on MSN, and she asked for wedding photos the other day!! Not going to happen...

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LilMissTrouble — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 20:26:20 GMT

FH doesn't talk to any of his ex-girlfriends and he doesn't see the need to. In the past there are ex-boyfriends I've kept in touch with over email but we didn't end on bad terms. My longest term boyfriend I don't speak with at all and I don't plan on ever speaking to him again, he cheated on me.

I'd like to think that if we ever crossed paths we could be civil to each other, but after I gave him a good part of 6 years of my life and he ended things by cheating on me, I'm not so sure how I would react. Of course it helps that I have an amazing guy now and we are planning our wedding. I always feel the best revenge on an ex is just to show them that you can be the bigger person and that the break up didn't break you :)

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eeklrb — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 19:58:12 GMT

[quote][b]chickypoo (7/5/2008)[/b][hr][quote][b]eeklrb (7/5/2008)[/b][hr]I have a few exes on FB and we rarely talk. Every once in a while one of them will send me a message, or comment on a photo, but like I said, rarely. I'll do the same, once in a while if I feel it necessary. One of them just recently graduated college, so I sent him a Congratulations thing, and I always say Happy Birthday on their birthdays. As for feelings, nothing beyond friendship. They are exes for a reason...

As for DH, he only had one girlfriend before me, and as far as I know they haven't kept in contact. Not that it would really matter though...lol.

I think most of my exes are glad they "got away" then they did. They look at me now, see I'm married and expecting my first baby in a month and they shiver at the thought that it "could" have been them...lol![/quote]

Too funny!

I have one ex on FB, but I don't think he counts - we 'dated' when we were 12 :P I've lost touch with my other exs (not that I had many)....and one is for a good reason! DH has I think 1 ex on his FB (well, they slept together, but I'm not sure if they ever really dated :P ); doesn't bother me.[/quote]

Also very true...:)

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chickypoo — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 18:22:44 GMT

[quote][b]eeklrb (7/5/2008)[/b][hr]I have a few exes on FB and we rarely talk. Every once in a while one of them will send me a message, or comment on a photo, but like I said, rarely. I'll do the same, once in a while if I feel it necessary. One of them just recently graduated college, so I sent him a Congratulations thing, and I always say Happy Birthday on their birthdays. As for feelings, nothing beyond friendship. They are exes for a reason...

As for DH, he only had one girlfriend before me, and as far as I know they haven't kept in contact. Not that it would really matter though...lol.

I think most of my exes are glad they "got away" then they did. They look at me now, see I'm married and expecting my first baby in a month and they shiver at the thought that it "could" have been them...lol![/quote]

Too funny!

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eeklrb — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 12:36:28 GMT

I have a few exes on FB and we rarely talk. Every once in a while one of them will send me a message, or comment on a photo, but like I said, rarely. I'll do the same, once in a while if I feel it necessary. One of them just recently graduated college, so I sent him a Congratulations thing, and I always say Happy Birthday on their birthdays. As for feelings, nothing beyond friendship. They are exes for a reason...

As for DH, he only had one girlfriend before me, and as far as I know they haven't kept in contact. Not that it would really matter though...lol.

I think most of my exes are glad they "got away" then they did. They look at me now, see I'm married and expecting my first baby in a month and they shiver at the thought that it "could" have been them...lol!

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aprilgirl — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 11:15:04 GMT

i talk to a few of mine but have no feelings beyond friendship. DH talks to one occasionally- they are friends on FB and she will post to him a lot and comment on pics, etc. sometimes I make him respond b/c I think it's rude not to! He has no feelings that I'm aware of. but they dated 4+ years and she was his first everything i so i would expect that he holds a spot in his heart for her but that doesn't bother me. he wasn't my first anything either- except we are each others first husband/ wife and that is all that matters to us!

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smurf993 — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 09:55:52 GMT

neither of us does, and to my knowledge either of us wants to. They are in the past where they belong.:)

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cfranke — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 01:50:55 GMT

FH doesn't really talk to his exes...but for good reason...from what I'm told anyways. I talk to a couple of my exes in passing...that's about it. I do hold a small place in my heart for one of them. Ah First Loves...haha.

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nikki04 — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 00:36:23 GMT

Well one of my exs is one of DH's best friends.. lol we all went to highschool together, and he was a groomsman for DH.. so I definitely still talk to him. And I have one other ex on facebook, but we were only seeing eachother for a couple of months so we talk once in a while.

DH has an ex on facebook.. but she messaged him and he never messaged her back. He doesnt really care to keep in contact with her, but he also NEVER goes on facebook

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Kyrra — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 23:54:33 GMT

Dh has no exs i was his first for everything.. i have one ex on facebook.. and only a select few exs have a place in my heart still. but definitly not all..

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MrsBrown!! — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 23:10:04 GMT

I have a few exes on FB, but we rarely talk. They are just kinda there, ad for DH, he has no exes. I was his first everything.

As for feelings, I do still have a small place in my heart for some of them. Not all though.

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MaAD — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 21:52:05 GMT

DH and one of his exs keep in touch. We were actually going to shoot their wedding until they broke up. :ermm:

Last time we went to my parents for a weekend, DH and I went for coffee with one of my exs.... his fiance was going to come too but she had been in hospital for emergency surgury. Ex still came for coffee though, his FW kicked him out so she could get some rest. I'd love to go to their wedding, but they are eloping in vegas.... probably in November. :w00t:

-Marianne

Does fh/dh still talk to any of his exes?

cheers — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 21:34:44 GMT

My dh doesn't talk to any of his exes. They lost touch and he doesn't have any interest in staying in contact (in fact, he doesn't even have them as contacts on facebook). Much like me and my exes.

Do you wonder if fh/dh still has any feelings for his exes? Do you have any feelings for any of yours?

The way I see it, you will always have a spot in your heart for anyone that touched you (even if it is long over). However, saying that, its a very, very, very small part!