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Posted 4/14/2006 3:35:11 AM






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Both FH and I are still friends with a few of our ex's in fact I've been out for coffee with one of his and she is totally invited to the wedding and I hope she attends. I have an ex who I msn regularly and is still in love with me and FH knows all about it. My ex has been my best friend since we were 13 and is fully aware that I don't like the person I am when we are together (the opposite of FH and I) and that's why things would never work between us. There is ABSOLUTELY NO chance of us EVER getting back together.

If my ex ever did or said anything to make my FH uncomfortable with our relationship he would get a warning and a second ocurance I would regrettably break off our friendship. As long as he treats you and FH with the respect you both deserve I don't see where the problem lies.

FH and I have very open communication and neither of us give the other reason to be jealous. I think as long as everyone knows the situation and their place within it there won't be a problem until someone tries to over step their boundaries.

Cole

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Posted 4/14/2006 8:09:27 AM






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You ladies are sweet...

Trust me FH is always at the top of any of my lists. I just don't like to hurt people. Oddly enough tho... telling the ex kinda made me laugh a little inside and enjoy that he'll never have what he wants. Okay a lil evil I know... but still quite fun.


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Posted 4/14/2006 11:10:22 AM






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Don't take this the wrong way, but he probably doesn't "love" you the way he says he does... he's just jealous!
I wouldn't worry about it.
If he's your friend, then he will understand.

You're happy with FH, don't let an ex ruin it

 
Blissfully married since August 4th, 2007
Hoping for our first little miracle!
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Posted 4/14/2006 11:26:41 AM






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I agree with Natalie.......this is a weird guy thing that happens and I've noticed it usually comes from the ones who were somewhat controlling when you were in a relationship with them.

Your loyalty needs to be with your FH....of course you don't need to be mean when you tell the ex this, but you do need to be clear. 

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Posted 4/15/2006 6:20:07 PM






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stupid boys

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