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| I think might be..... Don't get me wrong I am not all high and mighty on myself for being engaged but I feel as though I am getting hesitation from them. Most of all I am getting bad vibes all the time .... They say things like "everyone does it", they don't sounds happy when the topic comes up and further aren't being helpful. BEcause of this behavios I am only have my sisters in the wedding party and my 2 baby neices. I just think that they are trying to steal my thunder and don't want me to be the centre of attention sometimes. Am I wrong and being totally self cenrted... HELP
sonia  D+S - October 27, 2006 I'M MARRIED!!
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Are you the first one out of your girl friends to get married? Maybe they think that things are going to change after the wedding and you won't be that close to them. Or maybe they are just jealous. There is not too much you can really do about what others thing about your situation.
~May 26, 2007~
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| We have been drifting apart for a little while now and now that its my time to shine I feel as they don't want to share in it .... I finished school, got a job, grew up and found a great guy - all in such a great order that I sometimes think they resent it = almost like WTF
sonia D+S - October 27, 2006 I'M MARRIED!!
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My friends are sometimes more excited than I am!! But they are completely happy for Dan and I.. I think mostly because I finally found someone that I'm staying with... hehe. If you're the first one to get married out of your friends, this is possibly why they are being this way. Just be thankful that you're doing this now and have found the one that you're going to spend the rest of your life with. It's their loss.. not yours.. tough on them..
Jules 
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I never noticed any jealously directed towards me, but, I did notice that some of my friends really started to put heat on their men as to how come they can't hurry it up and get married. He he. 
Married September 10, 2005Expecting our first wee one - February 5, 2009
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| I don't notice too much jealousy from my girlfriends... but I can say that I've noticed a certain kind of "resentment" or jealousy coming from the girls that I know/co-workers who are OLDER than me and still not engaged/married. I am only 23 and was lucky enough to find my "other half" early in life --- so we will be married just after I turn 24. Whenever I talk about my wedding plans or relationship with the older women around me (for example, some ladies in the office who are in their early 30's and who have been single for a while) ---- they almost seem irritated with the fact that I am talking about it. They don't seem interested at all, and to be honest, I think that they are a little bit jealous. I think if I were the same age as them, I wouldn't get the same cold response. Does this make sense..... does anyone else out there know what I am talking about?? lol
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| sometimes i get the feeling one of my bm's is jealous. i could totally be misreading it though. if your friends aren't married just wait until they get married -they'll get it from other friends. one of my bm's got married five years ago and i was in her wedding party. now that it's my turn i kind of realize i could have been a little more supportive in some ways. i think my bm who acts a bit jealous sometime will feel the same way when her time comes!
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