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I am freaking out!! K, it starts like this, 4 weeks ago I ask my MOH to come to dinner the following Friday (which I am treating) so that my BM can meet her and my mom. She says yeah, as long as her hours permit it (she just started a new job and didn’t know her hours yet) so I said that was fine just let me know so I can reschedule if need be. That was about Thursday, I call her on the Monday, Thursday and Friday and leave messages each time. Very nice messages! She doesn’t call she doesn’t come!!! I call the next day and leave her another message saying “what happened to you” in a nice friendly manner. I have now been calling her every 2 or 3 days leaving her occasional messages about other stuff like “check out my wedding website I made, let me know what you think” or “I just wanted to say Hi” and still no call no messages no nothing!!! I called her this morning and the machine picked up and just when I was about to leave a message she picked up the phone and hung up in my ear!!! I am so mad I am about to cry!! Nothing happened though, I don’t understand. I have known her for 10 years, our children grew up together. She was always cool about the wedding and very excited to be my MOH, she even brought her child to my daughter’s b-day party a couple weeks before this happened and everything was fine then and when we spoke after. I just don’t understand??? I want to cry and I am at work!! Sorry for this being to long but I needed to vent!!
♥♥♥Married August 26, 2006♥♥♥
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| Hmm.. my first gut reaction is b*tch!! the second is drop her! the third is the more rational one of course.. I would give it a couple days, of not calling her, and then try again, or even go over to her house and see if you can find out why she's being this way. It sucks that you have to go through this right now *hugs*
Jules 
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My first reaction would to be worried. Very worried! But maybe I watch too much CSI. Ooouuuu..... Warrick..... *drool*!!!
UUmmm... other than being worried for your close friends personal safety and happiness, I would do as another poster said and wait a day or two, then drop by for tea or something. Bring over a few beers and some pringles. Drop in on her at her new job and bring her a small bouquet of flowers as a congrats.
Sometimes it becomes overwhelming to be a MOH, constantly surrounded by the dreams and demands of a bride. Every once in a while it's nice to be acknowledged that you've got new and exciting things going on in your life too (ex: new job).
Good luck and let us know what happens!
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I don't know about this...first everything is fine and now all of a sudden she goes wacky?!! My first reaction is WTF?!!! I agree, drop by her house and just ask her plain out what her problem is? If she's this stressed mabey her being MOH isn't the best idea. I know being in a bridal party is a big deal, and takes alot of time and effort but she needs to be there for you when you need her. Friend for 10 years, that's quite a long time, if you're really that close then having a little talk with her shouldn't be an issue.
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| Thanks for your advice :o) I know her well being is fine because a friend of hers works right by me and has spoke to her. She cant be stressed about being the MOH because I have yet to ask her to do anything! I planned everthing myself! The only thing she has to do is be there for the dress fitting and be there for me when I need her. I cant pop in for tea because she isnt always there and it is a bit of a travel for me. If I were to go and her not be there, I would have travelled all that way for nothing. I have waited more then a few days and then called and left her a message that has nothing to do with the wedding. I am so confused!?! 
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aww.. hun.. hugs
Jules
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