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MrsMtobe (4/6/2006)
Perhaps she is just busy and overwhelmed with her new job? Doesnt excuse her lack of communication though ... She works at Rogers video, part time, how busy can she be?? her lat job was worse and she always had time to talk. Even if she was too busy, for almost 4 weeks??? I dont think thats right at all!Also, could you please read the Terms and Conditions, particularly the part about the ticker? They aren't allowed and admin will remove it without notice. Just wanted to let you know in case you didnt read the T & C about tickers  Thanks for the heads up!!
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MrsZator (4/6/2006)
MrsMtobe (4/6/2006)
Perhaps she is just busy and overwhelmed with her new job? Doesnt excuse her lack of communication though ... She works at Rogers video, part time, how busy can she be?? her lat job was worse and she always had time to talk. Even if she was too busy, for almost 4 weeks??? I dont think thats right at all!Also, could you please read the Terms and Conditions, particularly the part about the ticker? They aren't allowed and admin will remove it without notice. Just wanted to let you know in case you didnt read the T & C about tickers Thanks for the heads up!! Well all you can do is wait for her to contact you or go see her in person, I guess. Something is obviously going on with her .. maybe not with you and her, but with her personally... at this point .. it's anyone's guess....
MrsMtobe ~Live and let live ~ Mod Squad Moderator The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness. Making the decision to have a child-it's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom. To understand a mother's love, bear your own children. Mother is the name for God on the lips & in the hearts of little children. A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.
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| Awwww *hugs* girl! Hopefully she's just PMSing and/or stressed about something and will return to the loving, caring MOH and friend she once was. I agree with the ladies ~ give her a couple days and then try and find out what happened or whats going in.
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| I have decided that I am going to wait until Sunday and if she doesnt call me by then I am going to call her. I will say flat out (most likely on the machine) that "if you still want to be the MOH or even in the party you need to let me know by ----- and if I dont hear form you I will have to find someone else!" As caring and upset as I can sound because 1) i want her to be and 2)i dont want to ruin a 10 year friendship Thanks for all your help!
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| I am really really worry to hear this. My maid of honour was not very great for me leading up to my wedding, so I know how it feels. Honestly, I would maybe have just bridesmaids, don't give her the title of MOH anymore, because that's what hurts the most.... that your bridesmaids are closer than your MOH. If she's just a BM, you may feel better.
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| MrsZ - I can relate a little differently as I had two "friendships" end without explaination and it leaves you feeling like you did something wrong. Know that this is probably not about you. I do not think her actions are fair and the least she could do is give you an explaination, maybe writing her a letter and expressing how you feel would be something to consider. Due to distance, stopping in and being in her face may not suit either of your right now. Then I guess you have to decide if you friendship is worth all of this stress. I am so sorry that you are going through this and I hope by Sunday, she calls and either way, things are resolved. Keep us posted and try to enjoy your weekend. Smiles, JJF
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