| email...... Dear MOH, For over a week now, I have tried to get in touch with you. Since we have been friends for over ten years, I am puzzled by your recent actions and have been seeking some sort of explanation as to why you are behaving in this peculiar manner. Since it seems very apparent that you do not wish to discuss anything with me, I have been forced to conclude that you no longer wish to be my MOH. I am very saddened by this turn of events but since time is of the essence, I must continue with my wedding planning with someone who truly wishes to be my MOH. If I am wrong about any of this, all you have to do is pick up the phone and call me. I still look upon you as my friend and dearly hope that we can continue on with that friendship once you deal with whatever it is that is currently troubling you. However, I do need your response within the next 48 hours or I will be left with no other choice but to select a different MOH for my wedding. I am sure that you will understand why I am doing what I am doing. No matter what, I would like to hear from you whenever you feel comfortable in calling me. Your friend, The above is what I would do. Put the decision into her hands and let her live with it. EL
Some people are like Slinkies... Not really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs. 
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