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Posted 4/11/2006 3:40:08 PM






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No, still waiting.

If she doesnt call by this Sunday I am telling her she's out

I hope she calls....

    

 

 

   ♥♥♥Married August 26, 2006♥♥♥

 

 

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Posted 4/11/2006 4:01:24 PM






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Good Luck with the MOH

Cheers!

Cass

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Posted 4/12/2006 7:49:31 PM






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I have now decided she is out!

I have to get my BM dresses done this week so too bad for her!

My mom still wants to call her (try to save our friendship) but I don't see the point. She obviously doesn't care

I can't just sit here in Limbo!!

I am now not even going to invite her!!! Maybe if she calls before the invites go out (next week) and has a REALLY good excuse, which I doubt

I will let you know if I here anything!!

 

Sincerely;

Going Nuts!!!

    

 

 

   ♥♥♥Married August 26, 2006♥♥♥

 

 

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Posted 4/13/2006 2:15:22 AM






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MrsZator (4/12/2006)
I have now decided she is out!

I have to get my BM dresses done this week so too bad for her!

My mom still wants to call her (try to save our friendship) but I don't see the point. She obviously doesn't care

I can't just sit here in Limbo!!

I am now not even going to invite her!!! Maybe if she calls before the invites go out (next week) and has a REALLY good excuse, which I doubt

I will let you know if I here anything!!

 

Sincerely;

Going Nuts!!!

 

Smart Move!!! Let us know if anything more happens with her or what excuse she conjures up for you!

    MrsMtobe 

~Live and let live ~

Mod Squad Moderator 

The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.

Making the decision to have a child-it's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.

The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom.

To understand a mother's love, bear your own children.

Mother is the name for God on the lips & in the hearts of little children.

A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts. 
 

  Mrs. M and loving it!!! 

Post #12541
Posted 4/13/2006 6:48:20 AM






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email......

Dear MOH,

                For over a week now, I have

tried to get in touch with you. Since we

have been friends for over ten years, I

am puzzled by your recent actions and

have been seeking some sort of

explanation as to why you are behaving

in this peculiar manner.

 

 

Since it seems very apparent that you do

not wish to discuss anything with me, I

have been forced to conclude that you no

longer wish to be my MOH.  I am very

saddened by this turn of events but since

 time is of the essence, I must continue

 with my wedding planning with

someone who truly wishes to be my MOH.

 

If I am wrong about any of this, all you

have to do is pick up the phone and call

me. I still look upon you as my friend and

dearly hope that we can continue on with

 that friendship once you deal with

whatever it is that is currently troubling

you.  However, I do need your response

within the next 48 hours or I will be left

 with no other choice but to select a

different MOH for my wedding.

 

I am sure that you will understand why I

am doing what I am doing. No matter

what, I would like to hear from you

whenever you feel comfortable in calling

me.

Your friend,

 

 

The above is what I would do.  Put the decision into her hands and let her live with it.

 

EL

 Some people are like Slinkies...

 

Not really good for anything, but

they still bring a smile to your

face when you push them down a

flight of stairs.

 

Post #12613
Posted 4/13/2006 9:51:10 AM






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Thanks EL, I basicly spit that out on her machine last Sunday!!

Except that it was 4 weeks and this sunday it will be over 5 weeks!!

My message will simply state that I can't believe she is doing this to me on the most important day of my life and just because she doesn't have the guts to pick up a phone and leave me a message doesn't mean I should suffer!! If she doesn't call me by the following Sunday (not easter the next Sunday) I am not even sending her an invite (why waste my time!!)!!

I am so pissed now!! I even talked to her mom and she said she was fine and doesn't know whats up!!! WTF?????

I was upset at first but you know what.....I have a wedding 1 way or another so that is where my energy is going now, NOT on trying to get a hold of her!!! She can bite me!!!! RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!

Thanks for all of your support!! I'll let you know how it works out!!

    

 

 

   ♥♥♥Married August 26, 2006♥♥♥

 

 

Post #12760
Posted 4/13/2006 8:10:27 PM