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Well.. for the past couple of weeks I've been neglecting my body, which is not a good thing to do if I want to tone and lose some weight. I had asked my FH to do an ab workout with me a few months ago and he laughed at the warm-up and we didn't even finish the DVD because he was being an ass. He doesn't need to lost weight, but he could at least give some motivation to me. Or try to help out. I'm sitting here with tears going down my face because it doesn't seem like he wants to 'participate' in this. It doesn't seem like he's being very supportive and it doesn't make me feel any better about myself. I don't have anyone else that I would be able to work out with. I lost a lot of friends over the years, so there's no one left. My main concern is the abs. I have this little 'pouch' that I can't seem to get rid of, and was hoping someone would have a suggestion and words of wisdom to help this along. I'm having yet another 'fat' day - completely self-conscience - and it's really irritating. I sit all day at work and walk home then sit on my ass for the rest of the night. And now I'm just getting angry so I'm going to end this...
Jules 
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You've got my support 
Did you try talking to FH and telling him how you feel about this?
Now stop thinking negative about this, if you do then you will make it worse, I can't really relate to your problem since I don't have weight problems, but I hope I can give you some initiative to continue your exercise...DON'T GIVE UP!!!! Start doing your own work outs if FH doesn't want to do it..if he lughs at you don't take it to heart just keep going.
If you cry over this you will make it worse if you feel good about your body then you will make it..I noticed that there is also a thread going around girls helping each other..check it out!!!
If a lived closer to you I would have offered to work out with you..
Would you consider going to a gym for work-out??? It might give you some inititive seing other people work out..and people who work at the gym can show you how to use the machines and how to concentrate on your abs only.
If you need any help feel free to PM..ok???
Now back to work stop crying and when you get home start your work out!!!!
***************** ~ Dijana ~ Married and loving it!!!!!!!
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| Jules, I hear you girl. Last year I was feeling the same way. However I didn't let my FH stop me. I went out and joined a gym and started to eat healthy. Now I feel amazing and now fh has joined me in living a healthy lifestyle. I would recommend that you join a gym or some kind of group thing i.e. THE RUNNING ROOM and get into shape yourself. Motivation is the key. It's hard to get started but once you do you'll be glad that you did. Wishing you luck
 Maria
~August 25, 2007~ www.mariaandsilvio.com
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Fh isn't laughing at me .. he's laughing at the work-out.. so he might as well be laughing at me.. He doesn't think I need to work out.. I do. it's in my head - I can admit to that.
thanks for the offer of working out with me.. it's the pity plea by me.. lol.. the tears are gone.. feel like shopping now though.. maybe for shoes..
I think I will start doing the workout again by my self.. it's hard though when our living room is the only other place, other than the basement, that has a TV that I could work out in front of... the one in the basement has more people around it so I wouldn't be comfy with it..
I DO want to tone and feel confident about myself, but the motivation to do it is lacking for sure.. I'll be sure to check out the thread.. I think I know which one you're talking about..
Jules
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Well go find those shoes it will make you feel better
Shopping is a type of exercise lol..afterall you are not sitting on your a$$
***************** ~ Dijana ~ Married and loving it!!!!!!!
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Oh I know.. I've been sitting in this damn chair for the last 4 hours.. pretty sad eh.. I should start taking the stairs or something.. all 19 floors.. lol
And I told FH how I feel and that I think he should be giving me some sort of support with it all.. he went silent.. he knows I'm right..
Jules
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