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| I don't really want to have kids, but I'm getting flack from everyone. My fiancee wants kids real badly and we HAVE talked about it and come to an agreement. But everyone else is giving me real trouble about this. My familly think that it's selfish or that I will grow out of it. I wish that weather or not I have kids was just up to me.
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I think for some people it is just not something that is important to them... and you should not at all feel bad or selfish about your not wanting children. I believe that deciding to not have kids is better then those parents who choose to have children but are never there to raise them. May I ask your reasoning for not wanting to have children?? ~ Alli xoxo
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| My FH and I are unsure if we wants kids, and sometimes I wonder if it would be easier if at least one of us wanted to. When we talk about it would both stare at eachother with blank looks on our face, saying "I don't know, do you'? and it continues on. I do think however it's normal not to be 100% - maybe your mind will change once your actually married and feel that you would like to expand your family.
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Well, FH and I have talked about it and I don't really want to have kids, and I also told him that some days I do! Figure that one out! I go really hot an cold with kids cause I am selfish and I'm not afraid to admit it... I want FH all to myself at least for a little while, and we love to travel, and we love eating when we want and doing what we want. I think the kids are either going to be accidents, or really late in the game... like late 30's...
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I don't really want kids either, and I think it was well put, about being selfish. If I wanna skip lunch one day,,,I will, if I want to get in my car and take off to toronto for the day I can, just put a coat on and go. Not have to worry about, car seats, diaper bags, bottles...etc etc. I have enough looking after myslef FH and 2 cats. And belive me that is a big handful.
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| I don't want children and I never wanted children. When I was younger I never thought I would change my mind, but as I got older I started to think 'never say never' because you really never know. I'm now 38 and am pretty much at the end of my baby rearing years and I don't have a clock ticking. I don't look at babies and think 'I want one!'. Some people think I'm horrible for saying this but I don't really like kids, and I never have. I'm the youngest in my family and never had young kids around me growing up and now we hardly have any kids in my family. However, I never get any flack from my family. One couple (my FH's best friend) just had a baby 8 months ago and have said a few things to us (me in particular) and I put him in his place. It's not for everyone and if they want to call me selfish then so be it. I love animals and plan on having fur babies around me all the time. I'm just not a mother type. I love my MOH's 6 year old son but he's the only kid I can handle for longer than 1 hour. Actually he got me more tolerant of children but I still don't want any myself. I like being 'fun Auntie Willie'. I don't know how old you are but I know some women that suddenly want a child around my age or younger so never say never.
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| Ya I can totally get what you are saying....DH and I figure maybe in a few years....its just right now, we like the ease of our lives...not having to worry about someone to take care of etc and we can do our thing (travel, play sports etc) and not have to worry about a child. Maybe in a few years, but if I am over 35 before we have one then we probably will not. So we have a few years to think about it still.
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