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| Okay, so here it is. My mom is driving me a little nuts. My MOH wants to have a friends shower at my mom's house as it is central location for me and my friends. I am NOT suppose to know about this but my mom is going away in June and because my MOH has not gotten back to her, she is stressed and told me that my MOH is planning a surprise shower for sometime in the summer. Ok, so I don't know when but because my MOH hasn't gotten back to her, she is constantly stressing me out and there is nothing I can do as I am not suppose to know about the "plans" to begin with. My MOH is also a new mom with a 3 month old at home and didn't really have a great MOH in my opinion...I threw her shower even though I was not in the wedding party. Her MOH was preggers at the time and didn't help. Now I am stressing because maybe she doesn't know how to be a MOH and my MOH hasn't even talked to me about the wedding or anything as we are always talking baby. She doesn't ask and I don't want to be all me, me, me, wedding, wedding! I don't know if I would even be feeling like this except that my mom keeps bringing it up that she hasn't heard anything. Yesterday when she told me again that she hasn't heard, I asked her what she wanted me to do about it and she said "well...I guess there is nothing you can do...I just thought you should know!" What does that mean and what do I do now? ANY advice please! Sorry for the verbal diarrhea. JJF 
~Finally Mrs. Williambug~ 
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| That really sucks. You are totally caught in the middle. If it was me, I would tell your MOH that your Mom needs to talk to her about something wedding related and to please give her a call. Or connect them via email. As you are not supposed to know about it, that is really the only way to keep it a secret. Next time your Mom mentions it I would tell her as nicely as possible that this is supposed to be a surprise for you and you would be more than happy to get your MOH to call her or give you her number and she can call and to leave you out of it. Hope that helps. Believe me, I just had my shower on Saturday and there was a ton of stress getting it all done on time, but it was sooooo worth it. It turned out to be the best day, all the hard work paid off and i had an amazing shower with my friends and family, not too mention the unbelievable gifts I was given. Good luck. Mrs.B-to-be in 59 days.............
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| I think if your mother is so worried about it, and is causing YOU to be stressed.. perhaps she needs to call the MOH and getting things straghtened out, check in..etc.. just to see how the ball is rolling. Good Luck!
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