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Evan1009 (6/22/2008)
it just seemed to me that everyone cutting their hair off after marriage was like some sort of ritual, since SO many do it, like you're a different person after you're married or some nonsense and need a new look. If I want to change the way I look I will at any time, I haven't made any plans for directly after the wedding,like I have to look a certain way for it, then I can go back to being "me" or like I'm waiting for something to make a change I would enjoy. if I had an idea of a way to make myself look better, I would do it now, not wait. Which is why I don't understand the whole "post wedding" hair concept, or the "before & after" thread, like getting married changes you that much? lol
Not everyone is cutting their hair- there are a handful of ladies who have posted that they have after their wedding. I guarentee you that there are many more who don't. I don't know why you think it's a "ritual" or where you got the idea that "SO many people" do it.
No one said anything about going back to looking like "themselves" after their wedding, so I don't know where you are getting that idea from?!
If you "don't understand the whole "post wedding hair comcept, or the "before & after" thread"" then don't post in them. Easy as that.
All in all, we will all do what we want for our own reasons- before or after our weddings. You do what YOU want...we will do what we want. OH- and tell me again in a few years that getting married didn't change you...it does, just wait!
...Proud Momma of Charlotte...
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Ya evan we all made really ensightful thoughts and it seemed you ignored them all the post what you wanted!! Like i said...my hair is down past my armpit...because i want my hair culy for the wedding...so..it needs to be a tad longer than i normally wear my hair...ive actually NEVER had my hair this long....after the wedding i will chop it back to what it was before i grew it to be able to do it for the wedding.....i cannot possible sit and spent an hour curling my hair every day...hence why i dont wear it this long....but i want it this way for my one special day....and whether i grow it long..chop it short the way i had it when i met my fh...my fh will still think im incredibly sexy...and since i dont define myself and who i am by the length of my hair...i am not changing at all.....its just hair..its just the outside...it has nothing to do with who i am as a person.....and as smurf said...ya..that DOES change too..but in a good way!!!!
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Im not married yet, but have already started thinking about what I will do with my hair after the wedding. I don't think its a "ritual" for the bride to cut her hair after the wedding, its more common that a bride starts growing her hair out for the wedding day from the moment she gets engaged, then after the wedding cuts it off back to the way she had it, or even a sexier shorter do! With me, my FH and I met when I had very long blonde hair, then we started dating and I chopped it to my chin and dyed it black, then a while later grew it out and dyed it blonde again, but with all the going back and forth it wont grow fast enough for the way I have always pictured my hair for my wedding so I got real hair extensions with my hair almost to my waist and platinum blonde, and I know for a fact that after the wedding I will probably cut the extensions to my chest area (boobs! hehe) and make the color not so much of a bold blonde. Its definately not because I changed cause I got married, but because if you don't ever do anything different then your appearance is never ever unique to you!
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I have had long hair my whole life. And I am growing it a bit longer for the wedding
And I have always said to my FH that I would cut it short once we were married. I hope I don't chicken out, I am so excited to cut it but very very scared. I know people say it is just hair and it will grow back but I am very attached to it.Here is hoping I don't chicken out!!
Marrying My Best Friend TJanuary 3rd 2009T
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| I had short hair for most of the time I have been with Alex. When he proposed I decided to grow it out so I could have an updo This is wedding dress shopping right after he proposed 
Before the wedding, 27 months after the last pic, at the rehersal. I have very curly frizzy hair not, I have no idea how it changed 
At the wedding 
Now on our honeymoon in Niagara Falls. Those are all my natural curls, I have no idea where they came from. It hasn't been this curly since I was a little girl 
Jeni (Not Forgotten!)
Alex and Jen June 21 2008 Now Mrs Brown!!!
http://alexandjen.weddingannouncer.com/welcome.html
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Evan1009 (6/19/2008)
why did you all cut your hair after your wedding? I have no plans on chopping off all my hair after I'm married. isn't it a very old fashioned thing to do that? I still want to feel "young and hot" even after I'm a wife!I'm not a newly wed yet, but I like this section. Young & hot doesn't mean you have to have long hair. That's actually pretty offensive to say. The longest I have had my hair in my life was down to my shoulders. Otherwise, it's been short (shorter than chin length), and this is actually a hot look for many women. I'm growing my hair out for the wedding and now my FH realizes why I don't like long hair. My hair is very thick, very fluffy and very unmanageable at the best of times. He is actually kind of not liking the long hair look on me, but it will look nice for the wedding to have it up. The day after the wedding I'll be sprinting to the nearest salon to get my hair chopped off really short and sexy. When I say short, I'm talking short and it's not b/c I'll be a wife but it's b/c I prefer short hair that is manageable and cute!
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