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Posted 6/13/2008 3:52:26 PM






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DH is so convinced it's a girl, but he doesn't want to find out for sure.  He's now got me convinced it's a girl, but it's also making me worry that there will be a little bit of dissapointment if it turns out to be a boy.  We've always said that we wanted 2 kids, a boy and a girl (I know, picky aren't we) so honestly either is totally fine.  But as Amanda said I don't want to have that dissapointment because it's not fair to the baby.  That being said.  Since it sounds so bad saying it out loud, I also don't want to voice my concerns to DH.  *sigh*

Nicole & Keith

Bought the house Feb 23, 2007

Became a MRS. March 14, 2008

Baby #1 "aka Demi" Expected November 14 2008

 

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Posted 6/13/2008 3:53:12 PM






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ChantalC (6/13/2008)
Just a heads up - I TRIED to get the tech to do that and she said they're not allowed to write it down! I was so aggravated, because we were going to open the envelope with family and friends at our reveal the gender party (which never happened since the baby didn't cooperate anyway). The tech said that as soon as it's written down people view it as "law" and if the tech is wrong, they don't want people coming back with something in writing. The whole thing was pretty silly to me...

But anyway, I don't think anybody will do that for you.

That is so stupid.  Geesh, I think that's a fabulous idea and to have some tech wreck it for you is just pathetic.........

I guess if I REALLY want my way, I have to hope that they refuse to tell us.....lol, then it's them letting DH down and not me

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Posted 6/13/2008 3:55:40 PM






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jbuckle (6/13/2008)
Well, I can't say to much. But it is an amazing surprise whether or not you find out at 20 weeks or 40 weeks!!

Great way of putting it, I totally agree!

April 4, 2008 ~ Our Punta Cana Wedding

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Posted 6/13/2008 3:56:19 PM






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Beebear, do you have any gut feeling yet about what you think it is?  I'm always so curious about this with people who don't find out or haven't found out yet...

 

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Posted 6/13/2008 4:05:09 PM






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BeeBear, where in BC do you live?? I live in Salmon Arm, and they wouldn't tell us here so I had to go to Vernon where they are allowed to tell. Down at the coast a friend of mine also just found out.. but in Kamloops and Penticton they won't tell you.. lol it really depends on where you live!

When we found out, we made a big special day out of it. As pp have said, it is a big surprise no matter when you find out.. DH and I were shocked actually! haha DH and I took our moms to the ultrasound with us and the tech even let them come in to see the baby after DH and I had some time alone which was great. Then afterwards, we all went out shopping together for the day for baby girl things!! lol

Cole & Nikki

 September 1st, 2007

 

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Expecting Baby #1 (A GIRL!) October 2008!

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Posted 6/13/2008 4:06:36 PM






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jbuckle (6/13/2008)
Well, I can't say to much. But it is an amazing surprise whether or not you find out at 20 weeks or 40 weeks!!

i 100% agree...

Wedding Sept 15th 07, Lily born Nov 27th 07, planned section for Riley on Nov 7th ya we work quickly hahaha

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Posted 6/13/2008 4:17:01 PM