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MrsZator (4/10/2006)
I am in the same boat as a couple other ladies, i am not married but have been together for a very long time!! We have a 7 yr old and busy shedules but we always make time for each other wether its Making love, making out, or just cuddling! The one thing that i have learned is to not be so self consious! Be able to laugh in the middle of sex! Look at each other right in the eyes! When you can connect with someone like this there is no stopping you!  I used to be such a prude! not only with sex but in general. but when I met my FH i stopped caring, i didnt care about making a fool out of myself, saying something stupid in front of him, I can just be me and he loves me no matter what! I have had a better sex life with him with in the first year then I have had in my whole life!! I agree with this to an extent. Definitely try to relax and be totally yourself. But... I feel that there are times when you can be too comfortable with your spouse (and I am guilty of it for sure). I think that there are certain things that you, as a woman, should try to be discreet about. You want to try to still be ladylike and attractive to your husband. If that makes any sense.
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| Sorry girls! Me again! I just wanted to add that there are some suggestions that have already been mentioned that I find VERY important and definitely work! Date nights are very important in terms of reconnecting! We also have many different interests and so we do things seperately a lot (even watch a lot of seperate tv) but we make sure to watch at least one show each with each other once a week (for example, I watch CSI for him and he watches One Tree Hill for me). Wearing something sexy really is a fun way to spark some passion too! Spending some time apart, in my opinion, can be a good thing. I'm not talking about taking seperate vacations or anything, but some couples really do EVERYTHING together but I think it's a good thing and healty to have your own activities that you do seperately once in awhile.
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mccasey (4/11/2006)
MrsZator (4/10/2006)
I am in the same boat as a couple other ladies, i am not married but have been together for a very long time!! We have a 7 yr old and busy shedules but we always make time for each other wether its Making love, making out, or just cuddling! The one thing that i have learned is to not be so self consious! Be able to laugh in the middle of sex! Look at each other right in the eyes! When you can connect with someone like this there is no stopping you! I used to be such a prude! not only with sex but in general. but when I met my FH i stopped caring, i didnt care about making a fool out of myself, saying something stupid in front of him, I can just be me and he loves me no matter what! I have had a better sex life with him with in the first year then I have had in my whole life!! I agree with this to an extent. Definitely try to relax and be totally yourself. But... I feel that there are times when you can be too comfortable with your spouse (and I am guilty of it for sure). I think that there are certain things that you, as a woman, should try to be discreet about. You want to try to still be ladylike and attractive to your husband. If that makes any sense. I think we know that much....lol Can you imagine how attractive he find you if you let one rip well you were in the middle of that...OMG!!! I meant when you try to do something and it goes wrong, or someone walks in the Tim Hortons bathroom while your getting freaky....lol you need to not be a prude but be classy at the same time!!
♥♥♥Married August 26, 2006♥♥♥
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