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| Thanks for clarifying! I appreciate the honesty! i do agree this is the place for it and do enjoy these...just..before i wasted my time giving an answer i wanted to make sure it was someone who would actually read and not post and dissapear! my thoughts mean a lot to me!hahahahaha I am marrying my fiancee because i love him a lot and i do know after many years of searching he REALLY is the perfect guy for me.I know that for as long as i like i will never find someone who is so compatible with me and who gets me like he does... We have all the basics in common...we share the same views on religion, money,family ect and we really just have so much fun together.. (plus..he's freakin hilarious..haha)I am also marrying him because we fight...hahaha...because i am entitled to my oppinion and he is entitled to his and neither of us have tried to change one another....and even when we fight....i never stop loving him and vice versa....i never think, omg..what am i doing.....as the day gets closer i get more and more excited...and to be honest..i just want to the wedding to be over..i dont care as much about that...so..you'd be surprised how many women share that same feeling you do....i REALLY just want it over with and to be his wife....and live together and raise a family together and then grow old together and have to remind him to turn up his hearing aid or put his teeth in!hahahahaa
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We got married cause we wanted to... we had always meant to, and kinda lost track of time, and let life get in the way a bit i guess. We have been together nearly 10 years. We wanted to get married to make a commitment to each other, but also cause we wanted to start and family and thought that it would be nice to be married first.... nice but if it happened before we would not have been upset. Also, we hated having to tell people that we were married... after being together for long they always kind of assumed it... that always bothered us.
Amanda and Brent... The Kelly's!! Riu Ocho Rios April 17th, 2008 at 3pm!!
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i did it for the dress. 
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huntertobe (6/27/2008)
i did it for the dress.   ...and the ring............
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LOL to the dress & ring comments.... I am marrying my man because I like his bum bum! LOL!
Natalie & Jun August 9th, 2008 It was the happiest day in my life!
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natluvsjun (6/27/2008) LOL to the dress & ring comments.... I am marrying my man because I like his bum bum! LOL!LMAO! THanks alot! That made me spill my soup everywhere! LMAO LMAO I am marrying my man becuase of his money.. lol JK. I dont really know why. I often question myself, but that is with any major decision.. you naturally weigh your odds and choices. In your gut you either know its the right thing or not...
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Zim.. Thank you for being so honest about your own doubts. Dh and I have been married just a few months short of a year and every now and again I have second thoughts, especially lately.
Of course I care about him and always will.. But I sometimes find that in some sensitive situations, he acts completely inappropriate. For example, in March, my dear grandfather died. Dh was actually upset that we had to spend so much time with my family.. I was disgusted that a person could be so selfish.. Especially my own husband! Like I said, I really love him I just sometimes feel I deserve better...
Anyways, I hope I don't get flammed or something for saying those things, but it certainly feels good to be honest with myself.
Zim (6/27/2008)
Imagine being plagued by doubts after the wedding!!
(This is happening to my husband and me right now...)
I think this is an excellent thread. Everyone has cold feet and niggling doubts. This is a great place to put down your thoughts, and maybe come back to them in down times, when you're struggling to remember why you're married.
My husband is smart, (sometimes) funny, serious, soft, (sometimes) sweet, and makes me feel safe, too.
These are the things I need to remember I love about him, and the things I need to make sure I don't sabotage!! 
Call me Nikki 
*Tied the knot on 8/18/2007*
*Expecting our first in mid December*
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