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Wow, what a nutbar!
I don't see how it's your fault. And you're right, if someone hadn't congratulated me on my engagement and seemed pi$$ed about it I wouldn't go off raving about my wedding to them.
She needs to grow up and realize that other people have lives too!
Ash
****Happily married June 24th 2006!!!****
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| the best part is that she's 11 days older than me... but I'm going to go home and relax.. I'm going out with the girls tonight.. I wonder if anyone will bring a camera.. wouldn't that be a hoot.. me plastered.. haha.. oh man.. I like my sparklie shirt today..
Jules 
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| I have read he previous post and now this one and I have to say there seems to be some real jealousy issues here. She doesn't want you to steal "her show" by even being engaged anywhere round the time she's doing all of her wedding planning and getting married. She is one of those people who expects everyone's world to stand still just because she's going to have a wedding. Also the part where she mentioned about how you didn't call her mom when you were supposedly so close to her, that also sounds like she's jealous of the past relationship and closeness you've had with her mom. If there have been any strains in their relationship (as there are in any mother daughter relationship) she has probably been bitter about feeling like her mom has never had those strains with you and had a close relationship with you. The whole thing just reeks of jealousy in my opinion and there's no way to fix it until she grows up and realizes you're not competition. I suggest you just leave her be, as hard as it may be, try to be as gracious as possible with her. If it gives you any satisfaction, you can just kill her with kindness, accept her apology and be there for anything she needs that is within reason. Then if she starts up with anything in relation to your wedding or gets pissed off about anything, just be the bigger person...might help to point out what a child she's being. Even if it doesn't, it'll piss her off and it'll make you happier than constantly being pissed at her. Good luck with everything... keep us updated! Amy
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| Oh Jules - I feel for you! Your cousin seems like she just doesn't get it! Everything you wrote made complete sence, and her replies made me go hmmmm I hope you & her can work out your differences & that she realizes it's not up to her when anyone gets engaged or when they get married! Oh my - I hope you can move on and just forget about this drama...
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| Leighann.. thank you.. She gives me headaches - I don't like headaches
Jules
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tobride (4/7/2006)
Jules, I don't have much I can say other than I have hugs for you and your cousin is a psycho nutbar.... Taren thanks tobride.. lol.. short and sweet. 
Jules
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