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| Maybe it is a BFP and you just don't have enough BHCG in your system yet to show. I wasn't getting a positive until about 5 days after a/f was due and even then I had some bleeding the second time! Sometimes people show a BFP a lot later than others. If not, it doesn't mean that something is wrong. Sometimes for lack of explanation your cycle can be wonky for a month. It happened to my SIL she only got bfn's and her af was 10 days late. It did come eventually. Try not to stress. Although I understand that feeling completely. I didn't feel as though I could fully enjoy my BFP after the miscarriage. I was nervous and at the doctors (unfortunately I had implantation bleeding which I thought was another miscarriage). I couldn't even share the pregnancy until after about 15 weeks or later (with general public) because I was so scared it would go away. I had to really, really focus on staying positive. It's really difficult. Try to stay positive and trust your body. Your body is an amazing thing!
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Joule that was me  And also, I didn't have ANY symptoms of pregnancy until 6 weeks and one day when I got INCREDIBLE morning sickness. But I can tell you, I've NEVER been SO happy to be SO SICK!!! So don't worry about the symptoms. Some of the "early" symptoms you "should" be seeing according to the books, I didn't have until the end of the 1st trimester and even into the second... nothing about pregnancy is "textbook" as far as I'm concerned. Everyone is different.... Still sending you big fat positive vibes!!!
~ Married On July 22, 2006. ~ ~A MOMMY since Dec.21st and LOVING it!~
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jbuckle (8/18/2008)
Joule that was me  And also, I didn't have ANY symptoms of pregnancy until 6 weeks and one day when I got INCREDIBLE morning sickness. But I can tell you, I've NEVER been SO happy to be SO SICK!!! So don't worry about the symptoms. Some of the "early" symptoms you "should" be seeing according to the books, I didn't have until the end of the 1st trimester and even into the second... nothing about pregnancy is "textbook" as far as I'm concerned. Everyone is different.... Still sending you big fat positive vibes!!! Thanks Jenn...I really don't know what to think right now. I know I need to try to relax, but its sooo hard (as I'm sure you know!) Yesterday afternoon I had the very slightest bit of brownish pink when I wiped, but it only happened twice and today, nada. If that was implantation bleeding, why so late?! And it doesn't help that I already know that late implantation normally = miscarriage. Aargh...this is killing me. Doesn't help that I had to go back to work today after vacation...as IF I can focus on anything here!
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Kirsty, I don't have any advice, just a lot of *hugs* for you. I hope you get your answer one way or another by Wednesday!
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| Not everyone experience the same symptoms... I never had any morning sickness and I was so worried that it meant I was going to lose the baby until I told my mom and she told me she never had m/s neither. I have a friend who didn't have any m/s for her first pregnancy and was so sick she had to take diclectin for the second one...! I think it's a very good sign that you had implantation bleeding. It's not that late. They say most people have implantation bleeding around the time AF was due and sometimes think it's their period and don't realize they're pregnant. It happened to my work collegue. She had soptting around her AF due date and thought she had a light period due to the stress of moving and renovating the new house and then a couple of weeks later she felt sick and then she missed her second period so she took a test and was pregnant. Like others said, it's easier said than done but relaxing should help you. I think you know too much about this subject... lol...!!!  Hang in there!
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kiwi25 (8/18/2008)
jbuckle (8/18/2008)
Joule that was me  And also, I didn't have ANY symptoms of pregnancy until 6 weeks and one day when I got INCREDIBLE morning sickness. But I can tell you, I've NEVER been SO happy to be SO SICK!!! So don't worry about the symptoms. Some of the "early" symptoms you "should" be seeing according to the books, I didn't have until the end of the 1st trimester and even into the second... nothing about pregnancy is "textbook" as far as I'm concerned. Everyone is different.... Still sending you big fat positive vibes!!! Thanks Jenn...I really don't know what to think right now. I know I need to try to relax, but its sooo hard (as I'm sure you know!) Yesterday afternoon I had the very slightest bit of brownish pink when I wiped, but it only happened twice and today, nada. If that was implantation bleeding, why so late?! And it doesn't help that I already know that late implantation normally = miscarriage. Aargh...this is killing me. Doesn't help that I had to go back to work today after vacation...as IF I can focus on anything here! I didn't chart so I don't know but if you o'd later... wouldn't that make your cycle longer??? So if you didn't o until day 20 couldn't your cycle be 40 days? Sorry if that sounds stupid... I don't know too much about the charting. But if your temp is up that's a good sign too right? I'm not trying to get your hopes up or anything but it just seems like that would make sense? Also, not sure about this but my doctor said you could have implantation bleeding even later after a/f was due.... Plus if it was implantation bleeding, wouldn't that be why you haven't got a bfp yet? Keep hoping! It sounds positive to me but I do understand how hard it is!
~ Married On July 22, 2006. ~ ~A MOMMY since Dec.21st and LOVING it!~
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