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Posted 4/7/2006 5:04:57 PM






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EastWest can you Please give me the details on where you got your invites!!!! I love them, even though they're "girly" I'd like them in black with red ribbon.

My fh loves watching me find deals and as long as I keep him informed when I'm spending $$ he's great!! He is right there though, of course AFTER the legwork lol, in the deciding of venue, menu, booze costs, he's making the invitations (he's a graphic designer!) once we find the right pocketfolds.....lol.  We talk about everything and he lets me do whatever I need to regarding decorating, flowers, details...as long as I'm good with the money!!  I am though so I guess he just feels she's better at it than me........I'll be there when the big decisions are made! lol  He really is happy and grateful that I'm in love with my ebay dress....after all the first one was like $1000.00!! He's very happy I save so much mulah!!!

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Post #5662
Posted 4/7/2006 5:49:13 PM






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My FH wasn't involved in the beginning plans either. I wouldn't hold it to them though, they are men and even though there are some women on here lucky enough to have their FH involved as much (if not more than them) it's nothing that they would want you to take too seriously.

My FH is just becoming involved and now it's pretty much too late for his opinions with the wedding only 4 months away! - It's just nice to hear his excitement

Stacey

 

 

 

Post #5749
Posted 4/7/2006 6:30:34 PM






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I'm suprised how much my FH is involved. I went through some of the little details with him flower type, WP colours, what season to have it and he told me what he wanted for a wedding. I love how involved he is, even if my flowers went from calalillies and ivy to burgandy roses and ivy, and my WP colours went from pale green and tope to burgandy and white. I love him and were getting married and thats all that matters

~*~To You The World May Be One Person - But To One Person You May Be The World~*~
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Post #5821
Posted 4/7/2006 8:29:02 PM






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FH is very involved and I'm very happy that he is. I do most of the phone calls and getting ideas then we make the decisions together. I like it because this day is for both of us and I want him to enjoy everypart of it as much as me (but Im sure I am enjoying the planning more hahah)

.::::May 12, 2007 - I Became a Mrs::::.
.::::May 5, 2008 - I Became a Mommy::::.

Post #5948
Posted 4/7/2006 8:43:10 PM






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FH is great...

Smart man that he is... he knows when to speak up and when to stay quiet!

Like... when I bought a second dress... good time to stay quiet. When I wanted to spend an extra $1000 on flowers he spoke up.

Naaaa just kidding. He's great and offers input but seeing as how I plan events for a living he just lets me go. It's easier for him to tell me what he likes and dislikes and stay outta my way.


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Posted 4/7/2006 11:12:57 PM






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FH has been awesome....I have been doing all of the research...because that is what I love to do....I then discuss with him what the ideas I have and then we decide together if we want to do that.....if we both are happy about our decision...I make appointments and then we again discuss if we are happy with the venue or whatever it is we are booking and then I finalize everything....I involve him when it is time for us to make a decision...so we have decided on everything together...except for the dress and accessories..lol...that he has NO say in at all......he will just have to wait to see that on the wedding day...lol...

 

So happy to be married to my best friend....

Post #6163
Posted 4/7/2006 11:16:39 PM