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| Okay, I am very excited about getting married, actually beyond explanation.... but sometimes when I am alone (which is most nights, FH works nights Mon- Thurs) i start thinking... sometimes i wonder if we are rushing things, going too fast or marrying too young... I know deep down that everything is awesome and everything is okay but do you ladies ever feel that way??? for me, its too surreal i guess, like OMG i am actually getting married.. sorta hard to believe... like a dream... i am always wondering if i am going to wake up and somehow not even know my FH and everything will be back to how my life was before i met him. I am not having cold feet or anything its just i guess i never pictured myself getting married until i met my FH so im kinda like I hope i am doing the right thing, BUT i know i am!!! its SO hard to explain without it sounding like i am having doubts.... which i am not!!! I love him so much and i want to start a family with him, grow old with him... he is my life, my soul, without him i am nothing...
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| Its a big step. If you weren't questioning your future then I think there would be something wrong. It is natural to want to look at the different aspect. Just don't scare yourself. You have to take chances in life. I mean unless he is violent and you don't love him then you have to look at what you want. Take care sweetie...it is normal how you are feeling.
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| oh you arent the only one feeling like this .... I'm 36 and never in a million years did I ever think I would take this step in life ... I'm independent ... always have been and while I've had my fair share of boyfriends I never wanted to settle down with any. As I got older ... I wanted a child more than a husband. Now, I think .. if I have a child, how on earth could I deny them their right to having a father around???? OK i'm rambling now(it's 5:30am so gimme a break lol ) ... but I understand your point in your post ... just know you arent alone! 
MrsMtobe ~Live and let live ~ Mod Squad Moderator The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
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Just breathe, especially when you're alone this happens. It happens to me all the time, "Is this a mistake?" Then i bash my head into my wall lol and remember who he is
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| I echo these ladies sentiments... I often, at night and alone, wonder if I'm making the right decision to get married. But then I think of all the reasons we're getting married... How much we love each other...
How he treats me with such respect and care...
How he lets me be weak and strong in the same breath...
Just take a deep breathe when you start to worry and remember why your doing this. He is your one and only and your spending your lives together both private and publicly.
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ScotBride (4/8/2006)
I echo these ladies sentiments... I often, at night and alone, wonder if I'm making the right decision to get married. But then I think of all the reasons we're getting married... How much we love each other...
How he treats me with such respect and care...
How he lets me be weak and strong in the same breath...
Just take a deep breathe when you start to worry and remember why your doing this. He is your one and only and your spending your lives together both private and publicly. - Exactly - I had the thoughts about waking up one morning and not even knowing who my FH is too. It's wierd isn't it? It seems like we've just met and I just keep wondering how on earth did the two of us get this far?! But I look back at the 5 years we have spent together and remember all the ups and downs we've been through and realize that I wouldn't be where I am without him helping me along my way. Just think of all the happy times you've been through together, and even the sad ones...That's what I do...I just think, if we can make it though all that we have (which is really bad :crying we can make it though anything Everything will be okay. Stacey
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| i was afraid to post this because i felt i would be the only one who felt this way.... i am sooo happy that i am not. All my girlfriends are not getting married, one of them had a boyfriend so i can sorta talk to her about it but its really not that same as talking to you ladies since you are planning weddings and stuff. All my other girlfriends are always in between boyfriends and they just do not understand... they constantly want me to break it off so i can be single again... wft!!! i do not really believe thats what friends are for and i stopped hanging out with them for that reason. My sister is just hard for me to talk to just because she is the type of person who always thinks she is right no matter what the topic is. so i am happy that i can express myself on here without feeling guilty!! thank you all for your advice... i know everything will be okay!!!
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