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My cousin is getting married and sent separate invitations for wedding and then dinner/reception.
The dinner/reception one has my name, FH's name, and our son's name on it. The RSVP card for this also has all three of our names on it. But on the RSVP card it states in big bold letters "PLEASE NO CHILDREN AT THE DINNER & RECEPTION".
Should I call her to clarify whether my son is actually invited or not? Or just assume that he is not and she made a mistake by putting his name on it?
Oh, and I have absolutely no problem with the no kids thing... I just find it strange his name is on the envelope, inside of the invite and on the rsvp card.
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I would clarify...its pretty confusing. Maybe she is just allowing the kids from the family. But definitely ask.
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I'd definitely call to clarify....sounds to me like it general she's asking for "no children" but your son is the exception to the rule. Best to find out for sure.
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Could be as PP said, that she's allowing children that are family. That's what FH and I are doing, and then no other children are invited. But yes, call and clarify.
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I'd definitely call and ask. it sounds like she's making an exception for family.
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| I'd be inclined to think that if she went to all the trouble to write out his name, it's safe to assume that he's invited. It's not like having his name there is an oversight (like it might be if his name was left off), you know? All the same, if you'd rather not be wondering, just call and double check  It's not like it will cause drama or anything
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I too would call and check with her. Like the other PP said, I think she is making an exception for your son.
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I would just ask her.
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