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Posted 5/8/2008 2:58:42 PM
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Maybe I am just worried (ok i am).

My FH has court next week for a fight that happened 4 years ago.  I don't know the whole story...but I'm scared for him.  Does anyone know someone who's gone through this?  I had a friend that couldn't leave the country for 4 years and had a curfew for a year...............

my minds just OUTTA CONTROL!!!

Denitta & Jesse

July 18, 2009
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Posted 5/8/2008 3:04:50 PM


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Wow, I dont' know anyone in this situation but I'm suprised he's going to court over something so minor 4 years ago unless the other guy was hurt really bad (ie paralysed, brain damage, etc) I dont' know what to say but goodluck and I hope it all works out.

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Posted 5/8/2008 3:07:28 PM
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most likely it will be a mis-dimeanor. Nothing serious unless the other guy was hurt bad. If he was hurt bad your fh could be looking at house arrest, curfew, or community service.  I had a case like this I had to look into during my practicum ( I am a cim major) and really its just a slap on the wrist. Don't be worried, the crown just has to follow procedures he will probably be told that this will be on his record but stayed.

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Posted 5/8/2008 3:11:03 PM
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I really hope its nothing major.  I just cant wait till its all over... 

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Posted 5/8/2008 3:12:57 PM


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Has your FH retained an attorney?  Has he talked to anyone about the charges against him? 

They don't just send you a notice saying, "You are being charged over a fight.  See you there." 

My brother went through something similar recently and since it was his first offense he is on probation for one year. 

But why haven't you talked to a lawyer?!?!?!

 

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Posted 5/8/2008 3:16:37 PM
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Yes he has a lawyer.  This happened before I ever met him.  And he just reminded me today that his court date was next week.

I have never really been in a situation like this before, where someone I love has court over some drunk fight.  But...the fact that he has a lawyer made me even more worried.... I dunno....this is a frist for me.

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Posted 5/8/2008 3:22:32 PM


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Don't be worried about the lawyer!  The lawyer is a GOOD thing!    My brother's lawyer was able to explain what was happening and speak on his behalf and was able to strike a deal with the prosecution.  He plead guilty to a misdemeanor assault and was released on 1 year's probation and some other minor restrictions (ex. no drinking, no drugs, must stay away from "victim"), etc.

Don't worry though.  Ask your FH what the lawyer has said about the situation.  I find it strange it took 4 years to get in front of a judge though ... it took my brother's case 2 months?

 

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Posted 5/8/2008 3:26:12 PM
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