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| We have guest that has been asking to come to our wedding for months so we told him we would invite him. He is not family or a close friend but really wants to be there. At our stag and doe he was very loud as he had been drinking quite a bit and he was yelling during my fh speech. I was very upset about it and thought he was rude. Many of the guests also commented on his behaviour to me and fh over the past week. I don't want him at my wedding. I have not sent him his invitation yet. Should I just not mail it and if he asks just say that I did or how do I tell him it is because of his behaviour that we won't be inviting him. I don't want him to ruin my reception.
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you could say that it was because of his behaviour, or you could lie and say that there wasn't enough room.. or there was more family to invite than you thought..
Jules 
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Just say that there's not enough room.. That's what we're doing. You don't have to hurt people's feelings and you get the same result, ie not have him at your wedding!
__________________________KiKi - Sept. 30, 2006
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Just don't send him an invitation. If he asks, tell him the truth - you've decided to keep your guest list to very close friends and family only.
Mrs. AlanaBanana Alana & Erik ...the perfect pair! December 30th, 2006
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Don't send him an invitation....if you say you did and it may have gotten lost he may show up anyways. I would definitely tell him it's a close family & friends only event as well...because if you try to explain that he behaviour is the cause...he may swear up and down he won't behave like this at the reception ...just my 2 cents worth...
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Just don't send him one period! That's it! It's your wedding, you invite who you want! Why do you have to worry about him being a jackass that night! You'll have enough thigs on your mind than to worry about what a guest is going to act like.
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Plus, what if he gets loud and obnoxious at the wedding.. you definately don't need that kind of crap!
Jules
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