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Mr and mrs so and so wish to uninvite you to the wedding of their daughter so and so to so and so saturday june five two thousand and six 4 o'clock in the afternoon during said reception you may stay home and watch reruns of bridezillas monetary gift still appreciated
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deloresdoe (4/10/2006)
Mr and mrs so and so wish to uninvite you to the wedding of their daughter so and so to so and so saturday june five two thousand and six 4 o'clock in the afternoon during said reception you may stay home and watch reruns of bridezillas monetary gift still appreciated ROFLMAO!!!!!! Nice one, dumbass...... EL
Some people are like Slinkies... Not really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs. 
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| Honestly I would tell him the truth. He was pretty much asking for this if he chose to act how he did at your stag and doe...if he asks, I would say that he has a lot of nerve and that it's simpily because of the behaviour he presented at the stag and doe, and that you don't want your wedding day to be a drunk fest. OR you could be nice and just say that there is only room for close friends and family. Either way I wouldn't make something up, cause he could end up showing up anyways, and wouldn't that make your day!!? Stacey
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I know how you feel.. Having someone loud and obnoxious around is even hard for me to tolerate in my house let alone at my wedding!, unfortuneatly, the most loud and obnoxious person I know is one of my FH's groomsman!  I would for sure confront him and say that you will be unable to invite him to the wedding for reasons that matter to you and your FH, even if you don't send him an invite dont you think he might show anyways? If he already thinks he's invited maybe he will think he didnt need to get an invite...? Anyways, good luck!
Cole & Nikki September 1st, 2007 Married & Loving It! Expecting Peanut #1 October 2008!
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| Send NO invite and tell a little white lie...I like family and close friends only is what we have room for. Maybe he will figure it out and maybe not...who cares?? It is YOUR wedding and do you want to invite someone who has the potential to ruin your day? You know that you will be worrying and waiting for him to act up so why bother with the stress....save yourself now as stress will come anyway later. JJF 
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I like the reason "We are only having family and very close friends"
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browneyed (4/10/2006)
We have guest that has been asking to come to our wedding for months so we told him we would invite him. He is not family or a close friend but really wants to be there. At our stag and doe he was very loud as he had been drinking quite a bit and he was yelling during my fh speech. I was very upset about it and thought he was rude. Many of the guests also commented on his behaviour to me and fh over the past week. I don't want him at my wedding. I have not sent him his invitation yet. Should I just not mail it and if he asks just say that I did or how do I tell him it is because of his behaviour that we won't be inviting him. I don't want him to ruin my reception. It's quite simple... DO NOT mail his invite. When he complains he never got it, then simply tell him that his behaviour at the stag and doe caused you to revoke the invitation as that is not the behaviour you want around you on your wedding day. End of story, now send the invitation to someone else who will act accordingly at your wedding.
MrsMtobe ~Live and let live ~ Mod Squad Moderator The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
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