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Friends of ours awho have been married for a couple of years have been ttc and they are having fertility problems. If you can't conceive a baby, would you adopt? Why or Why not?
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| Yes I would. I think that there are so many children who need a good home and if I was unable to conceive I would give one of those children an opportunity to have a wonderful and loving home that FH and I could provide. I mean, some of us have pets. Biologically they aren't ours but they are like children to some of us (myself included.) I wouldn't have a second thought about adopting.
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My friends who are having trouble conceiving are in a bit of a predicament. She wants to keep adoption open as a last resort (obviously we'd love ot have our own biological children with FH) but he is DEAD SET against it! It's something that I never thought to discuss with FH cause I always assumed that when we were ready we would just be able... Stupid I know! lol FH and I discussed it over the weekend and we would definately give a child in need a home, but I don't know what I would do if I found out later that it was a no go! Just a suggestion; when you're talking responsibility and finances etc. it might be a good idea to throw this in there, just to make sure you're on the same page!
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FH and I have talked about it and we would definately adpot! If we are not able to have children, why not give a child who needs loving parents a home? A child is a child regardless.
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Yes we would but as a last resort we would try other options first.
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| I have thought about this a lot, and FH and I have talked about it extensively. If we had difficulties conceiving I would not put myself through fertility treatments. I don't want to set myself up for failure and start hating my body for something that just isn't meant to happen for us. I think it can take the focus away of what you really want, a baby, and turn it into an unhealthy obsession. So yes, we would adopt. And due to the hoop jumping and waiting lists here, we would likely do a private adoption overseas.
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